Caregiving is a teetering balance between providing love and care for someone you love while making sure your own needs are being met. When the teetering balance tips to one side and caregiver burnout creeps in, the entire family is caught off guard. The emotional and physical consequences on the caregiver and the family can be devastating. We can't say it too many times: taking care of a loved one is such a gift; don't shatter that gift with caregiver burnout. Balance is crucial.
If you're the family caregiver, take this 20-second quiz to see if you need respite care.
Well, how did you do?
If you answered "yes" to one or more of the three questions, you definitely need a break. If that break is time away from your loved one to have some me time, give us a call. We do it a lot. In fact, once a family caregiver has had a day off and lets SYNERGY HomeCare take over, you'd be surprised at the volume of family caregivers who rely on us for the much needed weekly get-away respite.
Take care of the caregiver
While caring for your aging parent is a labor of love, it is still labor. As you spend more and more of your time caring for your senior parent, you may find yourself giving up favorite hobbies and vacations, saying no to friends, feeling distracted at work and getting more stressed with your spouse and children. Over time, juggling caregiving with work, raising children and managing a household increases your risk for depression, chronic illness and a decline in your overall quality of life. And the stress of caring for a loved one while managing your family and household can lead to significant health issues, both physically and mentally.
Despite these risks, you may neglect good health habits if you’re like many caregivers. You may skimp on sleep, eat poorly, skip regular exercise, keep going even when you’re not feeling well or even postpone your own medical appointments. If you’re a caregiver who neglects your own health, you’re more likely to suffer from a chronic condition such as high cholesterol or high blood pressure and obesity. Caregiving can also take a toll on your mental health, with an estimated 46 percent to 59 percent of caregivers suffering from clinical depression.
It’s time to pause and ask yourself: “What good will I be to the person I care for if I get sick?” As a caregiver, it is critical for you to take good care of yourself—even while you are taking care of your aging loved one.
It is possible to take some much-needed time for yourself while meeting the needs of your senior parent through SYNERGY HomeCare’s respite care services. Here are 50 ways we can help you right away.
Adult children can be thrown into the caregiver role when they least expect it. It only takes an aging parent’s illness, a slip in the bathroom or a collision caused by a mistake in the driver’s seat, and an adult child may find their new job as a caregiver—a role that few people adequately plan or prepare for. For practical tips and advice on caregiving, below are some good resources for you to download:
Where Do We Begin
A 52-page guide that offers insights, tips and help as you begin the caregiving role for an elderly parent. This guide will answer your questions and provoke thought about what it really means to need care and to be the caregiver.
Play it Safe
A guide to the help you identify the subtle warning signs that your aging loved one needs help.
Conversation on Aging
A how-to guide on how to handle "the conversation" with your aging loved one about possibly getting them a little help around the house.